Reality check with NO REALITY?
- Jacquelyn S. Geringer
- Nov 16, 2018
- 3 min read
Reality is only real if you truly live in it and through it. But how can reality be real if you hold no truth within yourself, no real connection within yourself, no real sense of self within yourself? Feeling like a stranger in your own skin, shattered inside but still trying to remain whole on the surface.

I’ve been in this space, pretending everything is fine, floating in life instead of allowing life to live through me. This space is tiring, exhausting, confusing and very unfulfilling. A great way to feel like you are losing your shit and your mind! And honestly you might just be…
LIVING IN A NO REALITY SOCIETY...
Our society has us looking up to and envious of overnight celebrities in all industries, clueless on what these people are made up of or if these people are JUST MADE UP.
“We cannot evolve on a higher level if our levels within are unbalanced.” - JSG
We can’t control what people put out in today's society and we aren’t going to do a background check on each instant overnight celebrity. What we can control is the design we choose to build for ourselves that best fit who we are and who we want to grow into. WE DON'T LIVE IN A ONE SIZE FITS ALL SOCIETY SO STOP TRYING TO FORCE A FIT...
The reality of it all is that we place unnecessary pressure and standards based off images we see, and post made on social media instead of taking the time to tap into our own self-made images from within, designing our own paths and unfiltered photo books.

I’m not saying don’t look up to people or find a mentor that vibes with your paths, find those people and allow them to influence you. Once you have a direction you are able to create an inner design for yourself.
“AUTHENTICITY cannot be DUPLICATED.” - JSG
What do I mean by authenticity cannot be duplicated?
Be influenced, inspired, motivated or turned away by whoever you choose to base your inner program on, but authenticity is something that has no identical features, no cut and paste, no secret formula. AUTHENTICITY IS AUTHENTIC BECAUSE THERE IS ONLY ONE DESIGN. Find your own individual template and grow from there.
“The collective starts with you…” - JSG
The collective meaning the bigger picture. Your collective could be your co-workers, your family members, your clients, your employee’s, the greater good of humanity, just something bigger than just you.
"You can’t appreciate the vision of a bigger picture if the visionary is blind..." - JSG
I ask, how can we expect to be successful in our day to day if we aren’t self successful? How can we expect to guide, motivate, influence others if our inner peace is shattered? How can we lead others to their goals, to their bigger picture, to their authentic self when we lack our own pieces to our puzzle? How can we expect change if we don't understand what our own reality is?
The change, the motions, the actions, the good will intentions, the peace, the understanding, the love, the kindness and whatever else you can list down needs to start and generate from within self before we can even think of changing the collective.
I leave you with this THOUGHT SPACE.... ARE WE JUST BLINDLY LEADING THE BLIND?
I want to hear your thought, your comments and feedback on this blog. Please email me at
thoughtspaceandmore@gmail.com or find me on IG @vixenfit808.
“Changing from within will lead to change in the bigger picture.” - JSG
Much Love and Light.
Humbly,
Jacquelyn S. Geringer
“May your guides, your angels and our maker continue to bless you and your loved ones… May your paths clear and may your new chapter bring you enlightenment, joy, peach and fulfillment…”
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