BROKEN EGG SHELLS DOESN’T MEAN THROW AWAY THE EGGS…

There are so many reasons why I love eggs…. They are yum with making healthy meals or with not so healthy meals, the fun thing is the options are endless.

So why egg shells?

To get to the center of the egg, the shell must be cracked. The shell acts as a boundary to protect the egg but if left un-cracked we would never get to experience the eggs full potential.

What am I getting at?

We are all egg’s in a sense, we have an outer physical shell that protects us physically and an invisible emotional shell that guards us from fear, uncertainty, self-doubt, hesitation, there are endless reasons.

What we unconsciously store away plays a big role innour paths we choose to journey through, decisions that we choose to make, how we view and treat self, and how we view and treat others around us.

From my experience the unconsciousness comes from the "LACK OF."

What is the "LACK OF?"

There are many meanings that could be placed behind the "LACK OF," but in this moment I speak of the lack of self-awareness and the lack of self-monitoring. When we lack these Self Check Points it makes impossible to be aware of anything else really. We unconsciously don't realize how we treat others, how we value others, how we make others feel, how we conduct business, how we parent, how we are in a romantic relationship, and how we operate in our day to day lives. So basically we are scrambled eggs without knowing it.

So are we really BROKEN? Or Do we just feel like we are BROKEN?

No one, no situation, no relationship is TRULY BROKEN. Not to say that broken emotion isn’t real, because that emotion you are feeling is 100% real, but I believe it is also100% fixable . So no, I don’t believe any person is truly broken. That broken feeling is the "LACK OF" something within themselves or in their situation.

Let’s crack that egg and scramble things up!

Stepping out of the emotional shell allows you to breath. When you engage in this breathing practice ask yourself why you are feeling this way? Where is this feeling coming from? Am I lacking something? Am I communicating the “LACK OF” in myself, in my business, in my situation, in my family dynamic, in my romantic relationship? Then ask yourself, Am I communicating what I am lacking, am I taking accountability for this BROKEN FEELING?

Take a moment to think while you get your THOUGHT SPACE JOURNAL. List out these questions, and please feel free to add in other questions, then take the time to answer these questions, read them through, reflect, and understand.

I would suggest writing out the questions and your answers, don’t type it or use your phone. There is something about the act of writing that allows you to connect and set things in motion versus using a computer or phone. But again that is just me. I want you to be able to express yourself in a way that will allow you to expand.

The "BROKEN SPACE...what is it?"

That “BROKEN SPACE” you are experiencing is a CONDITIONED RESPONSE like an autopilot mode triggered when we are feeling a certain way, in this case "BROKEN." Our feelings and our reactions are HABITUAL, formed from past experiences, and majority of the time we don't realize we are in autopilot mode recreating the same outcome to the same problems. But how can we make the changes when we aren't aware of this autopilot mode. Without awareness or understanding of our conditioned way of thinking or habitual ways, there will be no change within us or in our challenges.

The “BROKEN SPACE” can be dangerous, Why?

Our minds will make up stories moving deeper into our conditioned way of thinking which naturally causes anxiety, worrying, distress and by habit we focus on the negatives of our situation/s. By allowing our conditioned way of thinking to kick into autopilot mode will only cause build up in our minds amplifying the negatives and overlooking all the positives in your situation. You see how that works, and how dangerous the "BROKEN SPACE" can be and is.

Now back to the Egg Theory.

Naturally when we witness a fault, like a crack in the egg shell or find an egg shell in our mix/food we refer to our conditioned way of thinking, which is damage=negative, we must throw everything away. But, when it comes to something like a real egg we don’t throw away the whole egg or whatever we are making, we just adjust and move forward. Plus, if you live in Hawaii like I do, I don’t care if I find 20 egg shells in my food I would still eat it, eggs are so expensive here in Hawaii…lol

Sorry back on track...

My question is, why does the egg hold more value than our everyday situations? When we break the shell of the egg, or find cracks we don’t throw the egg away, so why do we immediately throw away our self- value, our work challenges, our family relationships, and our romantic relationships when we find a crack?

Interesting right? I mean come on even Humpty Dumpty was saved! So why can’t we acknowledge the cracks instead of overlooking them and making them worse then they really are?

So where do we go from here?

Take the time to understand where the crack is coming from before you decide to throw away a broken or cracked egg. Understanding first will allow you to realize what might have been lacking within self, within your situations, or within your relationships. When the "LACK OF" is found then solving the crack will be a lot easier and make the situation/s clearer.

“When there is one view point, the point isn’t the view it is the lack of openness.”

Much Love and Light.

Humbly,

Jacquelyn S. Geringer

“May your guides, your angels and our maker continue to bless you and your loved ones… May your paths clear and may your new chapter bring you enlightenment, joy, peach and fulfillment…”